Skills to Communicate With Women

To better communicate with woman consider the follow:

1. Have more attentive body language when you are sitting down. Don’t sit in a reclining position; it will appear as though you are not interested.
2. Hold your head straight up and don’t tilt it to the side. When you do that, it makes you appear judgmental and defensive.
3. When you gesture while talking to a woman, try to make your gestures closer to your body. This will make you appear more intimate and sensitive.
4. Be more conscious of how much room and space you take up while sitting or standing, so you don’t appear rude and intrusive to a woman. Sit closer to her.
5. When you are talking to a woman on a personal level, don’t fidget and rock back and forth. Not only is this distracting, but it gives her the impression that you are not interested in what she is saying. It also will send the message that you are in a hurry and want to leave.
6. Look directly at a woman as you talk. That does not mean you should stare. Just keep looking in her direction. Look at her entire face for a few seconds, her eyes, nose, mouth, chin, and then look at her total face. Keep rotating where you are looking-from face to chin.
7. Smile more. If you’re interested in someone, let them know it.
8. When you talk to a woman, open your jaw and don’t clench down when you speak. If you do, you will be giving the impression of being uptight and uncommunicative. Also, your tones will be more muffled, which can be very annoying.
9. Try to put more enthusiasm in your voice when you greet and converse with a woman. A monotone voice is not appealing.
10. In a conversation, respond to topics which a woman brings up. Don’t try to change the subject and don’t interrupt. When you do this, it makes her feel as though you don’t think what she has to say is important, and that you have little respect for her.
11. When listening to a woman, give her more immediate feedback when she’s talking. Interject “uhm hums” and nod more. Doing this will make you appear more attentive and more interested in what she has to say.
12. When responding to a question a woman has asked you, don’t give minimal responses like “yep,” “nope,” or “maybe. ” Give a complete answer and then explain yourself Go on to explain in greater detail why you said what you did.
13. Use more adjectives and intensifiers such as “so,” “really,” “incredibly,” “vastly,” and so forth in your descriptions. This will make you sound even more interesting and interested. Paying attention to more detailed descriptions helps you appear more aware, observant, sensitive, and perceptive.
14. Ask the woman questions when trying to stimulate conversation instead of going off on a monologue or a lecture. Let her talk and voice her opinions, too. Ask her about her “feelings” on the topics in order to stimulate the conversation. Doing so will make you appear to be more sensitive and more attentive.
15. Don’t ever use command terms to a woman. Never say, “Get me this or that.” If you are personally involved with a woman, be sure to couch your commands with terms of endearment such as “honey” or “darling,” and phrase your words with politeness. The word “please,” said in a pleasing, warm tone, is the key word if you don’t want a woman to resent doing anything for you.
16. On a similar note, never make a direct accusation to a woman if you want her to listen to what you are saying and if you don’t want to turn her off Instead of saying, “You didn’t pick up the drycleaning” in an accusatory tone, you may want to phrase your displeasure in question form, using a more gentle tone with upward inflection, coupled with terms of endearment (i.e., “Honey, was there a reason why you didn’t pick up the dry cleaning today?’). By doing this the woman is more apt to respond in a kinder, more positive manner and not respond defensively with a counterattack.
17. Don’t be stingy about giving a woman compliments. Be sincere and use words that portray true excitement.
18. When you are frustrated, at your wit’s end or emotionally moved, don’t be afraid to let off steam not only through yelling and shouting but also through tears. It makes you appear more “human and sensitive.”
19. Save your dirty and practical jokes for your male friends. Women really don’t appreciate this type of humor.
20. Don’t use swear or curse words. They usually offend women.
21. Learn to talk about personal issues. Don’t be afraid to express yourself openly and honestly. Talk about subjects that women find more interesting such as self-improvement, clothing, other people, and relationships.
22. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it.